You're an unlikely candidate for Discernment Counseling.

Based on your answers it doesn’t look like you as a couple fit the definition of committed for a lifetime, and if that's the case, that means you aren’t a good fit for Discernment Counseling.

Discernment Counseling is not a good fit if:

  • both of are leaning out of the marriage
  • the leaning-out spouse is fully on board with trying couples therapy
  • there was no stated (legal or not) expectation of being together for life.