Your marriage was plugging along until recently.Then came a conversation that changed everything.You learned that your spouse is seriously considering divorcing you.Your world has darkened. What’s going on and how do you salvage what you considered a good-enough marriage?We’ve invented a term for your situation: a leaning-in spouse. And your spouse is leaning out.Unfortunately our world

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Share 0 You’ve been worried about your marriage for a long time.Or maybe you’re in a crisis after an affair comes out. Either way, you’re seriously thinking about divorce but you haven’t made a final decision. Maybe you’ve told your spouse directly, or maybe you’ve either kept quiet or just dropped hints. But you’re past

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We’re writing to all those spouses out there with an unusual but important warning. Perhaps you have a friend in this boat, or your first marriage ended this way. Our goal is to bring into the culture a little discussed path towards divorce that takes a lot of people by surprise.Simply put: the one considering divorce

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You’re in the throes of a decision about divorce, or your spouse is threatening divorce. What each of you do and say now is of urgent importance to the fate of your union. We’re here to help. We want to help right now with this monumentally hard place in your private and public life with

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People usually keep doubts about their marriage to themselves.Here we’re not talking about ordinary concerns about the relationship or even feeling in a stuck pattern—instead, we’re talking about worries about whether the marriage will survive. This is scary to think about. If you tell others, you might get unhelpful suggestions such as “just listen to

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