Betsy Walli Sadur

LMFT

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with what they see as two bad options: the pain that would come from breaking up the relationship, versus the pain of staying in a miserable marriage where they can't see any hope for it to ever get better.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with holding on tighter as they try to persuade their spouse that the marriage is worth saving, and finding that it only seems to push their spouse further away.

I have been working with couples since 2012.