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Registered Clinical Counsellor

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with ambivalence about staying committed to the relationship or doing couples therapy, believe they have done everything they can so have little hope, are more aware of the other partner's contribution to the difficulties, and don't want to be the villain.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with wanting to save the relationship but not understanding the other partner's concerns or their own contribution, with personal, religious, financial and social reasons for staying married.

I have been working with couples since 1994.