Darci Cramer

LMFT

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with not feeling adequately heard by their partner, after many attempts to get them to understand their distress in the marriage, or a betrayal that they are not sure they can get past.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with not understanding the depth of the distress of the leaning-out partner, and anxiety (and even despair) around not knowing what the future of their relationship is.

I have been working with couples since 1994.