Flora Chin

CMSAC

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with feeling overwhelmed from years of conflicts, neglect or disconnection; a sense of hopelessness in a distressed marriage or inability to get over a betrayal; and yet concerned about the impact the divorce might have on loved ones, especially their children, judgment by the extended family and community and the unknown future..

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with intense emotions like fear of loss of, or abandonment by, someone whom they still love, desperation in wanting to keep the family together and anxiety over whether they can still save the marriage, and guilt over how they might have contributed towards the deterioration of the marriage..

I have been working with couples since 2011.