John Coumbe-Lilley

ALMFT, LPC

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with frustration and concerns things won’t improve in their marriage. They feel an answer to the pain and troubles is separation or divorce. Often they feel there’s no other way to get the attention of their spouse.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with hope, confusion and fear about what is happening to their marriage and to them. They are worried about the impact and consequences of divorce on themselves and their children if they have them. It’s hard on them because they feel out of control.

I have been working with couples since 2020.