Courtney DeShetler

PsyD

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with constant internal conflict about wanting to leave the marriage. They don't take this decision lightly. They worry about hurting their children, about hurting their spouse, and about hurting themselves if they make the wrong choice.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with tremendous overwhelm. They can't sleep at night. They can't focus during the day. They worry about the impact of divorce on their children and they can't stop worrying about losing the most important person in their life.

I have been working with couples since 2013.