Nina Raff

LCSW

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with Frustration and anger or distance and disconnection. Often the person leaning out of the marriage has tried to initiate change without success and feels hopeless.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with wishes for something to change and or stabilize, but is uncertain of how to bring that about. The person leaning into the marriage is willing to keep trying but also is afraid and may also be angry and frustrated.

I have been working with couples since 2014.