Sari Kutch

LCSW

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with the painful realization that they no longer recognize themselves in the marriage. Hope that things can change may have faded, yet imagining the hurt their departure could cause brings guilt, doubt, and fear of dismantling a life they once chose.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with the shock of discovering that the future they trusted may be slipping away. They may question how they missed their partner's unhappiness, resent having so little say, and fear that their attempts to repair things push their partner further away.

I have been working with couples since 1995.