Chip Neuenschwander

LMFT

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with feeling overwhelmed by repeated disappointments, leaving them questioning whether the relationship is worth the effort.They may feel stuck in a state of disconnection, where living like roommates no longer works.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with feeling rejection, shock, and uncertainty about the future. Caught in an emotional tug-of-war, they may go from trying too hard to withdrawing, both of which can backfire.

I have been working with couples since 2022.