Chip Neuenschwander

LAMFT

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with feeling overwhelmed by repeated disappointments, leaving them questioning whether the relationship is worth the effort--They may feel stuck in a state of disconnection, where living like roommates no longer works.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with feeling rejection, shock, and uncertainty about the future--Caught in an emotional tug-of-war, they may go from trying too hard to withdrawing, both of which can backfire.

I have been working with couples since 2022.