Peter Lobl

PhD

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with long standing loneliness. Many feel emotionally depleted after years spent hiding important parts of themselves and have become demoralized about ever feeling close to or appreciated by their spouse.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with shock that it’s come to this. Many feel panicked about losing their marriage along with profound unfairness about having this life-changing crisis thrust upon them, especially if they feel they’ve been doing their part for the marriage all along.

I have been working with couples since 2010.