Ben Cohen

Ph.D.

I have learned that the one leaning towards divorce is often dealing with Feeling frustrated that you don't know how to make the changes you want in the relationship. It may feel too bad to stay, but there is still some good that is hard to leave.

I have learned that the person wanting to preserve the marriage is often dealing with You likely have a strong desire to stay together, and some confusion or frustration about your partner's ambivalence. You may feel unclear about what your partner needs or concerned that whatever you do it won't be enough.

I have been working with couples since 1994.