We’re writing to all those spouses out there with an unusual but important warning. Perhaps you have a friend in this boat, or your first marriage ended this way.

You've been worried about your marriage for a long time.Or maybe you’re in a crisis after an affair comes out. Either way, you’re seriously thinking about divorce but

Your marriage was plugging along until recently.Then came a conversation that changed everything.You learned that your spouse is seriously considering divorcing you.Your world has darkened. What’s going on

People usually keep doubts about their marriage to themselves.Here we’re not talking about ordinary concerns about the relationship or even feeling in a stuck pattern—instead, we’re talking about

You’re in the throes of a decision about divorce, or your spouse is threatening divorce. What each of you do and say now is of urgent importance to